New Jersey, January 14, 2013– One of the biggest plus size events in history is upon us as January 26th quickly approaches.  The NYC Plus Model Network is having a monumental casting for aspiring plus size models.  The Owner of NYC Plus Model Network, Ms. Joy Ashley had a vision to create an event that would give the Plus Size Model Community an opportunity to meet and work with casting directors and influential brands in the plus size industry.  Some of the top names in the plus size modeling and fashion industry have signed on to show support for this groundbreaking event.

My cuz made me think about posting this because of her fb page status. We know they're alot of dead beat baby daddys out there but let me go in on these dead beat baby mommas and Im not talking about the ones who dont have their kids for whatever reason, im speaking on the mommas who live with there kids and they're still dead beats. My definition of a dead beat momma:

Dear Spirit,

After reading your letter, I was so moved, I cried until my head hurt because I know the truth. I understand all that you have said. It all makes sense…but it just feels so good when I am with him. Why can’t you see that? Don’t you feel it when he holds me? It is warm and I feel complete. WE feel complete! He told me that he loves me and I believe him. I know that his situation is not the most ideal for us, but what are our other options?

Somebody is going get dumped or be the dumper this holiday seaon. It never fails. Whether it was a mutual decision or an individual one, the decision to end a relationship can be devastating. You can make it and you will. This is not the time to fall apart. You are still responsible for you and your actions. Here are a few things to get you started on your emotional rehabilitation...

First things first...

Women complain alot about men and what has been done to them. Always asking where are the good men? Why do you pick a sorry man, stay with him and when he does what he is programmed to do...(cheat, lie, steal, hit on you...etc) you play the victim...

Questions ?????? Do most women spend any amount of time trying to make their booty jump like in women is doing in the video shown in this blog below? What the point of having your booty jump like this? How long do you think she practiced this?....

Forgive- is defined as to grant pardon for or remission of (an offense, debt, etc.), to cease to feel resentment against, or to give up all claim on account of; remit (a debt, obligation, etc). This is a powerful 7 letter word and so is let-it-go.  This is for all women: whether curvy or straight sized.  At some point and time in our life we have all been hurt, hurt someone, been heartbroken, or have broken someone’s heart.  We all have a story, and we all have a past.  However, can’t let our past control us.  If we keep looking behind us, how can we move forward?  Think of it as driving a car… If we keep looking in the rear view mirror we’re going to continuously keep going in reverse.  What I want you to do is shift your gear into drive and press on the brake and leave whatever is holding you back behind you. Let-it-go!  If you don’t let it go the un-forgiveness will turn to bitterness and life is too short to live being bitter, cold, and callous.  Remember forgiveness doesn’t mean to forget. Forgiveness means moving forward and once you do, don’t go back.  I want to leave you with these words, “when something bad happens you have three choices: you can either let it define you, let it destroy you, or you can let it strengthen you.”

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I couldn’t muster up the confidence to go back to my sixth period PE class.  
 What was once a social gathering for the popular kids, was now a never-ending catfight that always ended with me being emotionally ripped to shreds. I felt so stupid at times because I was afraid to speak up for myself, in fear that I would have to make a habit of it.
Seemed as if I was teased for everything, my shoes, my clothes, my hair, and my weight.
I had now come to realize that in their eyes, I would never be good enough...

Faith without works is dead...In the Bible it talks about the working of your faith...all you need is faith the size of a mustard seed...

also faith is not always a form of movement, action it's a belief within your inner soul...one must believe first before you receive...

Faith also is way to allow self to die slowely, sometimes working your faith is by being still and getting out of Gods way, being still make you move in your faith because you are saying to God I believe no matter what..(faith) kicks in...

so let go let God and get out of His way he really don't need our help...

MARKHAM, Ill. – After beating and suffocating her baby to make the boy stop crying Wednesday night(June 2011), a south suburban woman walked around with the dead infant in a BabyBjorn for several hours the next day, prosecutors claim.

Ken Blackman Jr., 3 months, of Calumet City, was pronounced dead at Ingalls Memorial Hospital in Harvey at 11:40 a.m. Thursday, according to the Cook County Medical Examiner’s office.

An autopsy showed the infant, whose death was a homicide by suffocation, had been dead for up to 14 hours prior to that time, prosecutors said at a bond hearing for Ken’s mother Monday at the Markham courthouse.

Judge Darron Bowden ordered Toyrianna Smith, 20, of 534 Luella Ave. in Calumet City, held on $1 million bond Monday, according to Cook County State’s Attorney’s office spokesman Andy Conklin. She is charged with first-degree murder.

According to prosecutors, Smith took her 3-year-old daughter and the baby with her to a friend’s home at 14923 Washtenaw Ave. in Harvey on Wednesday night, where she did her hair, hung out with friends and drank vodka.