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Taking a internet stroll past Google ave and Bing street, I came a cross an interesting shop on Facebook blvd featuring erotic poems and toys. I seemed to have caught the store owner adding more products for display. In doing so we had the most interesting chat about what little girls can get in to and how they grow up to be grown women. Meet LaShanda McLendon , poet and owner of Suckafreeshanda.com
SK: Good Afternoon, How is business these days?
Suckafreeshanda.com: Hi, pretty dry.
SK: Is that a trend or something new?
Suckafreeshanda.com: I just started my business last month officially so with any new small business this is the norm so I'm told.
SK: What is the nature of this business?
Suckafreeshanda.com: I feature my erotic poems and sell erotic items.
SK: Wow a double dose of reality. First what got you in to the erotic items business?
Suckafreeshanda.com: I went to adult stores when I was younger and hated the feel of the store and the way people were ashamed of their purchases so I thought an online store was more subtle and intimate like my poems.
SK: Have done a little research on you before walking in here; you started writing erotic poems when you were young. How old were you when you started writing them?
Suckafreeshanda.com: I was ten years old.
SK: How did you get introduce to erotic pleasures at such a young age?
Suckafreeshanda.com: I didn't learn to read until I was 8 so when I did I wanted to read everything then advance to the bigger books in the library. I didn't have a social life and my mother only took my sisters and I to the library. I saw Daniel Steel books and other novels, read them and found that the intimate parts of the books aroused me. I was stunned at how just the words alone were able to make me feel that. So I read more books and poets. My favorite was Nikki Giovanni and few others, which made me realize I was more interested with black erotica because I was black too and never realized my association. Then my mother got busy and didn't take us to the library, so I figured out a way to write my own that I would write put them away then comeback to read and experience the feelings the other books did.
SK: When did your mom discover your talents?
Suckafreeshanda.com: She found my homemade books one day when checking out my sister.
SK: How did she react?
Suckafreeshanda.com: She was shocked I could write because she always said I was stupid. She liked them and asked me if I was sexually active or wanted to be? I told her, “No .” I just liked to write. She said she wanted to publish them and other stories I wrote. Luckily she left them with me and went to work the next day. So, I destroyed them all from age 10 to 16 years old. When she came to me later for them I told them I grew bored with writing and just wanted to read so I destroyed them. She was going to publish them in her name.
SK: How was the experience of having sex finally doing the things you wrote about, but have not yet experienced?
Suckafreeshanda.com: Crap. It was nothing like I had read or thought it would be. I didn't have the same sensual feelings my character had or read. So crap.
SK: What do you think was missing that allowed for you to not connect as you did in your thoughts with the books and writings?
Suckafreeshanda.com: Intimacy and knowledge of my body.
SK: So it was more you than him. How did your writing changes as a result of having sex?
Suckafreeshanda.com: I put myself on both sides, female and male. No, it was him and I focused on me. I wanted an orgasm. The pain I did not expect. I wanted to feel the near heaven feeling...
SK: what did you mean by "I put myself on both sides female and male."
Suckafreeshanda.com: I see things from a male and female prospective.
SK: I think this illusion of heaven is what allows many females to have there first time when they probably should wait.
Suckafreeshanda.com: No, not for me.
SK: Speaking on this subject what advice will you give to young women thinking about having sex for the first time as it relates to the "I will feel and see fire works like on tv?"
Suckafreeshanda.com: I would tell them what I tell my daughter, that sex will always be there but your future will be affected by that choice forever. Chase success not an orgasm. But when you do have an orgasm at the right time with the right person you do see fireworks and you do feel the small death.
SK: Since having the first orgasmic experience what would you say was missing in your writings before having one?
Suckafreeshanda.com: The feeling, the scene that are triggered when you have one and before. I can have control of a seen and not have a climax because of expectation.
SK: Well it seems your business is a natural fit. Where do you see it going?
Suckafreeshanda.com: Yes, I do too! Heehee! I see it going to the stars. My business changing how people go about sexual encounters and taking over the sex industry with no mercy. The Oprah of erotic poems and toys.
SK: What other services can people expect from you in the near future?
Suckafreeshanda.com: Member subscription, Goody Chest, an E-book of poetry, and only the best items they can buy since I select everything on my site.
SK: How do you select your items for sell?
Suckafreeshanda.com: I have access to every adult store company in the U.S. I pick by what looks sensual and I have used them too. Being a woman also helps since I know what we want and how to have an orgasm. For example, some woman can climax just from rubbing a pillow between their legs, so I add a plush toy penis or some like familiar things like ducky vibrators.
I can’t close this any better than by using her words as I left the shop heading back down Google ave, ”Let go and let the juices flow and come," Shop with Shanda!' @ Suckafreeshanda.com! heehee…..